CHAT Headsup for Every un-attached man

[Sam2]

Every un-attached man should prepare for sudden, massive poularity amongst the un-attached female population...

I'm already starting to feel the eyes on me, and have noticed an increase in women speaking to me, even having seen me out and about only a time or two.

You can bet I have questions at the ready.
My favorite: "Are you pretty smart,, for a girl...?

 

[NoMoreLibs]

Why?

 

[greysage]

Why?

 

[Border Guns]

Yeah, why, are you good lookin' or sumtin' like that???

 

[Meemur]

I'm a single woman, but the last thing I'm going to be doing right now is flirting with guys. That's almost a violation of Op Sec.

 

[LucyT]

Why?

 

[China Connection]

The only reason for a man to stay single is intelligence.

I have some friends in good marriages but I see a lot more more disasters than successors over time.

 

[jward]

My single friends tell me it's the Married wimmins swarmin, not the single ladies.
...I think it's the hint o' spring in the air, everyone seems to feel it. Cept me, o' course,
I'm still old true blue with eyes for only one at a time, n happy with what I do have instead
o' worrying 'bout what I don't.
Maybe you grew a beard over the winter? Furry fellas are hard to resist, ya know

 

[Vegas321]

I'm a single woman, but the last thing I'm going to be doing right now is flirting with guys. That's almost a violation of Op Sec.

Lol. My kind of lady!

 

[Sam2]

I'm surprised noone has figured it out.
Just off the top of my head...

Women have no balls and can not defend themselves,
-- exceptions to the rule duly noted.

So, they do not own themselves - by definition, as primative as it may be.

Women have smaller brains which are wired different from a man's brain.
They generally can not think like a man, because God created them thataway.

So, they need a man to navigate the perilous times that are upon us.

Any resources a woman has are more likely than a man's, to be poorly deployed and under-utilized.

So, the woman needs a man for his muscle power, including the brain muscle, if not for any resources he may bring to the table.

Feel free to elaborate along these lines, knowing my own perspective as noted in the points mentioned.

Don't blame me. Blame your creator, if you feel the need...

Oh, and it don't matter whether I'm good looking.
All you gotta do is look at the men some women choose.

 

[Sam2]

My single friends tell me it's the Married wimmins swarmin, not the single ladies.
...I think it's the hint o' spring in the air, everyone seems to feel it. Cept me, o' course,
I'm still old true blue with eyes for only one at a time, n happy with what I do have instead
o' worrying 'bout what I don't.
Maybe you grew a beard over the winter? Furry fellas are hard to resist, ya know

My winter coat is in full bloom, even if it is like a brillo pad
.
It may disappear, little by little, as the weather warms up.

 

[ShadowMan]

WHOA!! Hold on here cowboy. Women may have smaller brains (and smaller physically), but they do have nearly twice as many connections between neurons. We each have our advantages, disadvantages and limitations. However, together we're an AWESOME TEAM. Individually we are both weak in different areas. Our focus' are different. Our abilities are different.....and that is our strength, together. Gee how amazing that GOD made us that way. Go figure.

I went through my second divorce at 38. Fighting to gain custody of my 3 kids. Being career military no judge in Kalifornistan would allow that....one actually declared I was UNFIT because I was in the military.

I had no interest in women or anyone for that matter. Just wanted to be left the hell alone and holed up in my cave....it's a man thing. Once people found out I was single I had women throwing themselves at me. I'm not handsome or debonair looking, but also not butt ugly either, just healthy, good sense of humor, intelligent, fit/trim, employed and fertile.....damn. It was friggen ridiculous.

Where in the hell were these women when I was younger, totally single, without kids? I never even dated in High School...shy I guess. Once divorced I was literally beating them off with a stick. No brag, just fact. It was scary.

So "Free Range Prisoner".....just be very careful, cautious and EXTREMELY selective of who you date or hang with. As a matter of fact, learn to enjoy being single. Let tincture of time heal your wounds and learn to live happily with yourself. If you think you need someone to "make you happy" you're barking up the WRONG TREE and will live to regret it....trust me on this!

If you're lonely. Get a dog, and if the dog doesn't like her. RUN AWAY!

 

[packyderms_wife]

I'm a single woman, but the last thing I'm going to be doing right now is flirting with guys. That's almost a violation of Op Sec.

Yep, most likely he’s looking for a nurse with a purse. I have a dozen or more female friends who are perineally single and this is their main complaint. And these female friends have little to no experience with men as they’ve always been looked over for the eye candy or potential trophy wife.

And now all of a sudden these same men who have been nothing less than hateful pricks towards my friends for the past thirty five years are perusing them and hard.

These guys have no money, no savings, and a plethora of health issues, but these women are supposed to be excited that these men are perusing them. Not.

 

[packyderms_wife]

I went through my second divorce at 38. Fighting to gain custody of my 3 kids. Being career military no judge in Kalifornistan would do that....one actually declared I was UNFIT because I was in the military.

I had no interest in women or anyone for that matter. Just wanted to be left the hell alone and holed up in my cave. Once people found out I was single I had women throwing themselves at me. I'm not handsome or debonair looking, but also not butt ugly either, just healthy, fit/trim, employed and fertile.....damn. It was friggen ridiculous.

Where in the hell were these women when I was younger, totally single, without kids?

Out ****ing some random guy and catching stds and seeking abortions. Avoid those women like the plague infested tramps they truly are!

 

[Sam2]

Yep, most likely he’s looking for a nurse with a purse. I have a dozen or more female friends who are perineally single and this is their main complaint. And these female friends have little to no experience with men as they’ve always been looked over for the eye candy or potential trophy wife.

And now all of a sudden these same men who have been nothing less than hateful pricks towards my friends for the past thirty five years are perusing them and hard.

These guys have no money, no savings, and a plethora of health issues, but these women are supposed to be excited that these men are perusing them. Not.

You know what they say about making assumptions...

I presume that you should understand, maybe incorrectly, because you viciously strike out, like this, anytime the war between the genders pops up.

Statistically, for the benefit of those that might not understand, your circle of influence is insignificant.

But your bitterness shines through.

Not much I can do about that, except to point it out and hope you come to understand that it is not healthy to live thataway.

Just recognize that when you apply an insignificant sampling result to a broader population, your risk of error is magnified by orders of magnitude.

All it does is to reveal your bitterness, with emphasis.

 

[jward]

I went through my second divorce at 38. Fighting to gain custody of my 3 kids. Being career military no judge in Kalifornistan would do that....one actually declared I was UNFIT because I was in the military.

I had no interest in women or anyone for that matter. Just wanted to be left the hell alone and holed up in my cave. Once people found out I was single I had women throwing themselves at me. I'm not handsome or debonair looking, but also not butt ugly either, just healthy, fit/trim, employed and fertile.....damn. It was friggen ridiculous.

Where in the hell were these women when I was younger, totally single, without kids?

Been my experience that the more unavailable I am, the more fellas decide to gang up and chase. Like a group sport, to see who can catch the elusive one. I think it's similar with females- basic economics, really... less readily available something is, the higher it's perceived value. And I do not even have a beard, nor am I handsome, and wth ever debonair is, I aint. Usually a few in the group are sorta curious for real, most o' it is just guys being guys.

 

[Blacknarwhal]

The only reason for a man to stay single is intelligence.

I have some friends in good marriages but I see a lot more more disasters than successors over time.

...yeah, the numbers aren't exactly good. I have faith that God can make anything turn out, but the good Lord also counseled prudence. Walking into a coin-flip chance of success doesn't sound like a prudent plan.

 

[vestige]

 

[packyderms_wife]

You know what they say about making assumptions...

I presume that you should understand, maybe incorrectly, because you viciously strike out, like this, anytime the war between the genders pops up.

Statistically, for the benefit of those that might not understand, your circle of influence is insignificant.

But your bitterness shines through.

Not much I can do about that, except to point it out and hope you come to understand that it is not healthy to live thataway.

Just recognize that when you apply an insignificant sampling result to a broader population, your risk of error is magnified by orders of magnitude.

All it does is to reveal your bitterness, with emphasis.

Sounds like you don’t know what it’s like to be a fifty plus year old female who now has single men c9me along and say... well your ****ing ugly but you’re a virgin and have a sizable bank account so you will do. You may not think that way but a good many men do think this way... and that said a good many women also think this way.

And for the most part this is why I hate and despise humans. My dad died this past week and my brother, his wife, and my dads sister are desperately working the long con. As far as they are concerned I’m no longer family and was told as much.

It’s going to take some time to process all of this. I’m constantly being told what I WILL be doing... but you know what? **** them! I’ll hold this shit up in probate court forever if I have to! Bitter? No, just wiser and more curmudgeonly.

They will have to sing for their dinner! I was left out of everything, every decision, including how the funeral should go. Three quarters of the family refused to come to my dads funeral because of them.

 

[Sam2]

WHOA!! Hold on here cowboy. Women may have smaller brains (and smaller physically), but they do have nearly twice as many connections between neurons. We each have our advantages, disadvantages and limitations. However, together we're an AWESOME TEAM. Individually we are both weak in different areas. Our focus' are different. Our abilities are different.....and that is our strength, together. Gee how amazing that GOD made us that way. Go figure.

I went through my second divorce at 38. Fighting to gain custody of my 3 kids. Being career military no judge in Kalifornistan would allow that....one actually declared I was UNFIT because I was in the military.

I had no interest in women or anyone for that matter. Just wanted to be left the hell alone and holed up in my cave....it's a man thing. Once people found out I was single I had women throwing themselves at me. I'm not handsome or debonair looking, but also not butt ugly either, just healthy, good sense of humor, intelligent, fit/trim, employed and fertile.....damn. It was friggen ridiculous.

Where in the hell were these women when I was younger, totally single, without kids? I never even dated in High School...shy I guess. Once divorced I was literally beating them off with a stick. No brag, just fact. It was scary.

So "Free Range Prisoner".....just be very careful, cautious and EXTREMELY selective of who you date or hang with. As a matter of fact, learn to enjoy being single. Let tincture of time heal your wounds and learn to live happily with yourself. If you think you need someone to "make you happy" you're barking up the WRONG TREE and will live to regret it....trust me on this!

If you're lonely. Get a dog, and if the dog doesn't like her. RUN AWAY!

Perhaps you also fail to understand the meaning of what they say about making assumptions...

You really stretched to come up those assumptions, based on what I said.

I might be considered a founding member of the MGTOW movement, the beginnings of which were around 1970.

I am quite comfortable being single, as it is preferable to living with a competitive, contentious bitch who has the DNA of numerous men retained forever, in her brain.

 

[Sam2]

Sounds like you don’t know what it’s like to be a fifty plus year old female who now has single men c9me along and say... well your ****ing ugly but you’re a virgin and have a sizable bank account so you will do. You may not think that way but a good many men do think this way... and that said a good many women also think this way.

And for the most part this is why I hate and despise humans. My dad died this past week and my brother, his wife, and my dads sister are desperately working the long con. As far as they are concerned I’m no longer family and was told as much.

It’s going to take some time to process all of this. I’m constantly being told what I WILL be doing... but you know what? **** them! I’ll hold this shit up in probate court forever if I have to! Bitter? No, just wiser and more curmudgeonly.

They will have to sing for their dinner! I was left out of everything, every decision, including how the funeral should go. Three quarters of the family refused to come to my dads funeral because of them.

That is true, I don’t know what it’s like to be a fifty plus year old female who now has single men come along saying such things.

That is rude beyond measure. The lack of manners these days, is a pet peeve that gets stronger by the day.

Sorry about your relatives.

I trusted family 30 years ago, lost inheritance and haven't seen them since. They would not know where to find me, even if they knew the state.

Once you break the trust, it is worse than Humpty Dumpty to put back together.

 

[jward]

Well sam, I for one was glad to see ya start one of "these threads" Such a nice break from the other brands o' doom
...as for the rest o' the unhappy experiences and low expectations and fulfilled expectations: I dunno what the problem is, honestly. I've been well loved my entire adult life because I was brave enough to be loved, and more importantly, because I turned it over to the Lord and as with everything said :your will be done, and then listened for his directions....
and he really does drop folks into your laps, if that is what you're ready for and open to.... O well don't mean to ruin a good rant thread, but...

 

[packyderms_wife]

That is true, I don’t know what it’s like to be a fifty plus year old female who now has single men come along saying such things.

That is rude beyond measure. The lack of manners these days, is a pet peeve that gets stronger by the day.

Sorry about your relatives.

I trusted family 30 years ago, lost inheritance and haven't seen them since. They would not know where to find me, even if they knew the state.

Once you break the trust, it is worse than Humpty Dumpty to put back together.

Sigh that’s what I’m going through with family now.

And that is how men have treated me my whole life... I mean like seriously I do have a place.., if I didn’t then god would have called me home at birth! I married a widower, he has way different views, thank God. My best view, according to him is when I bend over... so no cracks about my face.

 

[Sam2]

Well sam, I for one was glad to see ya start one of "these threads" Such a nice break from the other brands o' doom
...as for the rest o' the unhappy experiences and low expectations and fulfilled expectations: I dunno what the problem is, honestly. I've been well loved my entire adult life because I was brave enough to be loved, and more importantly, because I turned it over to the Lord and as with everything said :your will be done, and then listened for his directions....
and he really does drop folks into your laps, if that is what you're ready for and open to.... O well don't mean to ruin a good rant thread, but...

If I were a better man and 20 years younger,
I'd hang around and flirt wit' you for a while.

You sound like like a woman that has not debased herself and have lived according to the strengths, weaknesses and inclinations you were endowed with, by your creator.

Funny how things work out, when you live according to the Master's plan...
ain't it.

 

[jward]

Sigh that’s what I’m going through with family now.

And that is how men have treated me my whole life... I mean like seriously I do have a place.., if I didn’t then god would have called me home at birth! I married a widower, he has way different views, thank God. My best view, according to him is when I bend over... so no cracks about my face.

Sowwie bout your father and family--- I've been praying for you all, and will continue to do so. Never too late.

 

[ArisenCarcass]

Women may have smaller brains (and smaller physically), but they do have nearly twice as many connections between neurons.

No offense, but this so misleading as to be practically untrue.
Recent large scale studies show that the interconnectivity of the hemispheres of the female brain (the corpus callosum) tends to be larger, but it is also larger in smaller male brains as well.
Male brains (which tend to be larger) are usually more reliant on intraconnectivity (assymetrical organization) of the hemisperes.
Additionally males tend to have more neurons located in the cerebral cortex (associated with executive functions), necessitating an overall increase in neural conections.
The average female brain has more neuropil (the synapses, dendrites and axons that enable neurons to communicate with numerous other nerve cells).

The data show that the number of connections is more related to brain size than sex. It is a way to wring more performance out of a smaller package. When looked at objectively, both are means to the same end, and the actual connectivity of a healthy brain is pretty stable across the sexes.


BTW, I can cite sources but they are dreadfully dry, unless you like statistical analyses.

 

[ChetekTech]

Married 23 years to a beautiful women. Wouldn't change it for the world. Lucky, I guess... but I thank God for what He provided. (Maybe not often enough though)

Plenty of both fake male and females with shallow goals out there. Easy to spot them once you start up a conversation.

 

[Turret Buster]

Pimping ain't easy.

 

[Sacajawea]

How do you build "tribe"?
One person at a time.

Perhaps that's all that's behind this OP observation. Personally, I overcompensated AGAIN... and did this 6 months ago.

:shrug:

 

[greysage]

I'm surprised noone has figured it out.
Just off the top of my head...

Women have no balls and can not defend themselves,
-- exceptions to the rule duly noted.

So, they do not own themselves - by definition, as primative as it may be.

Women have smaller brains which are wired different from a man's brain.
They generally can not think like a man, because God created them thataway.

So, they need a man to navigate the perilous times that are upon us.

Any resources a woman has are more likely than a man's, to be poorly deployed and under-utilized.

So, the woman needs a man for his muscle power, including the brain muscle, if not for any resources he may bring to the table.

Feel free to elaborate along these lines, knowing my own perspective as noted in the points mentioned.

Don't blame me. Blame your creator, if you feel the need...

Oh, and it don't matter whether I'm good looking.
All you gotta do is look at the men some women choose.

That explains the little hotty checkin' me out during my trip to the grocery store yesterday afternoon. Guess I looked smart in my Crocs, cargo pants, and blue flannel shirt.

 

[et2]

Yeah, ok women have smaller brains .... But most men think with their small head. Just sayin. Doesn't sound to far fetched by the sounds of this thread ....

 

[Sam2]

Yeah, ok women have smaller brains .... But most men think with their small head. Just sayin. Doesn't sound to far fetched by the sounds of this thread ....

You Must be a girl...

 

[et2]

You Must be a girl...

No. Just smart enough to recognize nonsense when I see it.

 

[PghPanther]

Some results of testing in regards to the differences of male to female cognitive/behavior variations.......

Woman exceed men in average reaction times and in cognitive multitasking which has been naturally selected over time to what we know as the maternal instinct of today.

Example: Shirley Muldowney and other lady drag races today can compete and win frequently on the same equal playing field with male racers because in drag racing a big advantage is in your reaction time getting off the line at the start which females are typically faster than men and have that advantage.

This ability has been selected in females through the evolution of environmental pressures of protecting offspring/children. We see this demonstrated in all mammals. ............however, men tend to have a more spread out range in IQ and dominate both ends to the left and right of the mean IQ average......Point of case in geniuses.

Men dominate the genius area of IQ testing.......Males average 300 to every 1 female in geniuses. It should be noted this is in the case of the White race..............non-White males (specifically Brown and Blacks) have very few testing in the gifted area of the 140s and none ever testing above 150 where thousands of White males have tested above an IQ of 170 among the 10's of millions of human who have undergone social non-bias pattern recognition IQ testing.

But I regress............so back to men and women specifically here.........

Men are expendable in nature.........women are not. As a result environmental pressures naturally select in males a more wide range risk level crap shoot with their cognitive skill sets.

What does this mean?

Sperm cells verses eggs.......................the average male can ejaculate 100s of million sperm cells in one copulation.........but a woman produces only one egg every 20 to 30 days.............which means in a woman's fertile lifetime only 400 or less eggs are produced.............whereas sperm is plentiful all the time.

As a result, women have been naturally selected over time for risk adverse preservation cognitive skill sets as opposed to risk skill sets as males have through the process of species survival since there are so few of their eggs to continue the species available. If it was not this way we wouldn't be here to discuss this to begin with.

Sure there are overlaps and outliners in these skill sets/behavior between the genders but the larger the population study of gender differences the strong the correlation of these results.

In nature, male sperm cell counts are a dime a dozen so to speak .........nature therefore finds the selection process best to have women's cognitive skill sets center close to the average IQ mean on the curve of intelligence to avoid risk which can compromise their ability to raise offspring...... and for them to be more reactive to multiple stimuli or being able to multitask effectively as a result of having to nurture offspring while being aware of their surrounds to protect them from predators at the same time.

Everyone is aware of what happens if you get between a cub and its mother bear who sees you position as a threat. This type of reactive /protective behavior is seen all through mammals and human maternal behavior.

On the other hand men and their sperm count is so plentiful nature can select for risk in men since they don't need many males to survive for procreation that natural could not afford to allow females such levels of risk behavior for the species to survive.............Therefore the male IQ is more spread out from the mean or has a flatter bell curve that women. Which means that there are more extremes with male cognitive abilities than women. As a result, there are more frequent and dumber idiots among males than females...........conversely there are also more frequent and greater geniuses among men than women as well.

There is another interesting aspect of the maternal behavior as a result of their evolved cognitive skill set. Women tend to be more agreeable to their in group or family/close friends than men but for those outside of their in group they see them more of a threat than men. Examples of such behavior we see among liberal feminists where those who agree in their in group they have significant bonding with and those outside of that in group (most notably men) are seen as toxic and must be eliminated.........this is very much like the mother bear gathering the cubs in a den and attacking anything that approaches their security.

Another good example of such behavior is in sports fans. Women tend not to be as big as sports fans as men but those who do become are far more passion on average than their male counter parts in the love of their home team and hate of the opponents. I observed this for years in auto racing. If you had some rival race teams the men between each rival teams. While they won't invite each other to a family picnics so to speak but for the most part they really kept to themselves with very little physical encounters from any on track incidents...........but every week they raced their women folk in the stands were war like and ready to scratch the eyes out of the opposing rival team's females at the drop of the hat with anything that could be perceived as an on track threat between the two rival race teams.

Men tend to be slower to react but can end up more extreme with their behavior when they do.......

The bottom line is male and female species are in fact different in their cognitive processes of which behavior is downstream from that process but they are also very complimentary to each other for the purpose of species survival.

Anyone today that denies this must ignore the mountains of evidence from the disciplines of biology, anthropology and a host of other substrates of the scientific understanding in gender cognitive/behavioral differences.

 

[Sam2]

No. Just smart enough to recognize nonsense when I see it.

You done fooled me.

 

[Turret Buster]

...

 

[Millwright]

Tires, brakes and batteries...

 

[patriotgal]

Sounds like you don’t know what it’s like to be a fifty plus year old female who now has single men c9me along and say... well your ****ing ugly but you’re a virgin and have a sizable bank account so you will do. You may not think that way but a good many men do think this way... and that said a good many women also think this way.

And for the most part this is why I hate and despise humans. My dad died this past week and my brother, his wife, and my dads sister are desperately working the long con. As far as they are concerned I’m no longer family and was told as much.

It’s going to take some time to process all of this. I’m constantly being told what I WILL be doing... but you know what? **** them! I’ll hold this shit up in probate court forever if I have to! Bitter? No, just wiser and more curmudgeonly.

They will have to sing for their dinner! I was left out of everything, every decision, including how the funeral should go. Three quarters of the family refused to come to my dads funeral because of them.

My dad always said that blood is thicker than water. After he died, I learned the rest of that phrase...Greed is thicker than blood. Hang in there, packy. Being pruned from the family tree is not for the faint of heart.

 

[WalknTrot]

I'm surprised noone has figured it out.
Just off the top of my head...

Women have no balls and can not defend themselves,
-- exceptions to the rule duly noted.

So, they do not own themselves - by definition, as primative as it may be.

Women have smaller brains which are wired different from a man's brain.
They generally can not think like a man, because God created them thataway.

So, they need a man to navigate the perilous times that are upon us.

Any resources a woman has are more likely than a man's, to be poorly deployed and under-utilized.

So, the woman needs a man for his muscle power, including the brain muscle, if not for any resources he may bring to the table.

Feel free to elaborate along these lines, knowing my own perspective as noted in the points mentioned.

Don't blame me. Blame your creator, if you feel the need...

Oh, and it don't matter whether I'm good looking.
All you gotta do is look at the men some women choose.

Obviously, you just never held out for a better class of woman, which is a problem many guys seem to have.
Some get it right at about #3.

 

[Jubilee on Earth]

You can’t make generalized assumptions, bro. My husband and I have a terrific marriage, filled with faith, love, and mutual respect for each other. But guess who’s the prepper in our household? Not my hubby. He fully supports it, but he sucks at being detail oriented. Women are more organized and are terrific at making lists and remembering things. I’m the one who has singlehandedly built up our pantry, determined what items we need on hand, organized the budget and purchasing of items, created a library of articles/books/information, and analyzed the security of our property. My hubby is the hunter and protector, but I know how to shoot a gun and would have no qualms about living alone or doing all of this by myself. The good Lord paired me with a mate, and we compliment each other. Plus I know how to cook, heal using natural medicines, and grow a garden.

Don’t underestimate us.